VALENTINE'S DAY

VALENTINE'S DAY

_{Well here is that magical day when LOVE is celebrated by one n all.Really all those people who have a special one in their life and all those who are considered special by someone are lucky.And i am sure we all fall in atleast one of the above mentioned case if not two i.e either you love someone special OR you are special for someone. Well many people say to their partners that he/she is the only person whom they love in this entire world and that he/she is the only person with whom they have fallen in love. But i have to be honest saying this that i have fallen in love more than once and of course with a different girl every time. But my love has always been one sided i.e whichever girl i have loved has never loved me back. Some people say LOVE is a big mistake and all those who fall in love never gain anything out of it, infact they lose their peace of mind.But i would say LOVE has been quite kind enough for me. So here i am to share some of my experiences that i have had with LOVE during the different phases of my life and what i have gained out of it.}

_{Well first love struck me when i was in 7th standard. During my school especially till 7th standard i was a very dull student. I used to rank 38 in a class of 50 students and as my complexion was a bit dark all other students used to tease me a lot (They used to call me “Kalai”). And hence unable to bear all these taunts i used to never mingle with any student of my class. To be honest i had no friend until i met her. Well she was the topper of my class and her name is Ruhi. Despite being the topper of my class she used to be very friendly with me and this is what i really liked about her and we really became the best of friends in the next year or so. At that time i didn’t realize that i loved her but to match her in every aspect i started studying well and after much hard work i was able to break the top 20 in 8th standard. And day by day our friendship grew more thick and in 9th standard i made it to the top 5 in my class for the first time and guess what she was ranked behind me. But then due to some reasons i couldn’t be in touch with her after my 10th standard and since then i have never seen her. Really whatever i have achieved today in my academics a huge credit goes to Ruhi and i will never forget her for this because it was she who inspired me to study and it was for her that i started studying well so that i could impress her. Hence “Education” was what i gained from my first love though i lost a wonderful friend in Ruhi.}

_{Well it didn’t take long for me to fall in love for the second time. Well i fell in love the 2nd time when i was in 11th standard with a girl named Sharmista. I fell in love with her the moment i saw her unlike with Ruhi which took me some time. So the first question was how was i going to impress her ? Well the answer was DANCE. To be honest i had never danced in my entire school life but just to impress her i decided i will perform a solo dance in my college festival and well the plan did work because just a few months after that dance performance she came up and talked with me for the first time. Now its been 7 years that i know her and just last year i proposed to her and guess what she rejected but she still is a very good friend. Really i was heart-broken the day she rejected me but then there was nothing that i could do and thought might be GOD has someone even more special than her. Just a week back while chatting with her she said one boy has proposed her and guess what this time she accepted his proposal. Well another heart-break that day and since then i have not talked with her(I know that is not right) but it makes me feel like i am nothing against that boy who has proposed Sharmista. But no matter what i thank Sharmista because it was she who inspired me to Dance and well i am good dancer if not the best. Hence “DANCE” was what i gained from my 2nd love.}

_{Well this is about a girl who is one of my best friend among girls.....no in fact she is my best friend among girls. I met her when i was in my 2nd year of engineering and its been 5 years now that i know her and really i like her a lot. Well her name is Noureen and she is exactly like me in character(very mischievous and talkative) and really that’s one reason i like her a lot because Ruhi and Sharmista were complete opposites of me(very disciplined and calm). I will never forget the times that i have spent with her. Well you might ask what i have gained out of this friendship with Noureen....like from Ruhi àEducation...from SharmistaàDance. Just a few days back one of my friend said to me “Allen, you have a very boring life”. I accept what my friend said but really whatever little joy and sense of humor you find in me it’s because of Noureen. Because it is with her that i have learnt how to enjoy life, how to laugh and how to smile. I thank Noureen for all this and i should say this that “She will be the best friend among girls i will ever have” because i don’t think i will be able to find someone like her because i am not that good in making friends(especially with girls).}

_{And finally coming to my current love. But friends there is no one special in my love life right now. But yes there is this one girl who i met in Chennai. But it’s too early to say anything about her but all i can say about her is that she is a complete opposite of me(Well just like Ruhi and Sharmista). Well below mentioned are the dialogues that the hero of the film Saathiya(Alaipayuthey) says to the heroine. Well my situation is somewhat similar to this}

_{Film Version My Version}

_{I don’t think you are beautiful I think she is beautiful}

_{I don’t think i like you I think i like her a lot}

_{I don’t think i love you I think i love her}

_{But i fear that all this would happen. And really i don’t want all this to happen}

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY TO EVERYONE

WOMEN'S DAY

WOMEN'S DAY

Just a few days back i saw a banner which stated the following line “Women are the real architects of the society”. Well i do partially agree with the above line because the way today’s woman is progressing in every field there is no doubt that they have played a major role in building the society. Well there is nothing that a woman can’t do and i salute every woman in this country. Well a woman can don many roles in her life......Some of the most beautiful role a woman plays in her daily life are as follows

SISTER

One of the most beautiful relationship with a woman. A woman with whom you can share your sorrows, joy and secrets. A woman with whom you can fight on silly issues. A woman whom you can trust a lot. But sadly this relationship stays strong until she is married (i might be wrong) but in most of the cases after her marriage she has her own family to look after and hence the bond of brother and sister becomes a little fragile. But really it’s good to have a sister.

FRIEND

It’s quite difficult to maintain a friend among girls your entire life. Because it is very rare that i have seen a boy and a girl maintain their friendship even after their marriage. For reasons best known to all of us there is a time when we have to give the friendship with a girl a break. But the time when you are friend’s with a girl are the best times of your life.

LOVER

Accept it or not we all must have fallen in love with at least one girl in our life (well there are cases where people have fallen in love more than once). Again this relationship with the woman gives you the feeling of being like in heaven. But 90% of times even this relationship fails to reach the climax due to various reasons. But being in love even for sometime is a great feeling and marrying the same woman is the best thing that can happen in life.

WIFE

Well she is the woman who controls the major part of life of every men. It she who can make a man’s life a hell or heaven. As the saying goes “You cannot live with her and you cannot live without her also”. But still it’s a wonderful relationship considering the fact that the woman leaves behind all her blood-relations for a man whom she hardly knows and takes care of him his entire life.

MOTHER

Come on people.....how can we forget her.....She is the most beautiful woman in the whole world.....She is the only person who loves her child till death.....She is the one who can sacrifice almost anything for her child......Really no one apart from a woman can play this role the best because for being a mother i think that person needs to sacrifice a lot......and i think only a woman has the quality of sacrificing.....really we men are selfish at times but a woman always sacrifices almost anything for her loved ones.

BOSS

Really this is the worst role a woman can play......She will act like a HITLER and make you do the task......I hate woman’s who play this role because you just can’t raise your voice against her....Well forget about raising your voice.....we will not get a chance even to open our mouth for voicing our opinion.

Well there are many other roles that a woman plays apart from the ones mentioned above. But without any doubt the best role a woman can play are

1) Mother

2) Wife

3) Friend

4) Sister

5) Lover

6) BOSS(I hate every woman who plays this role)

HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY

MY BIRTHDAY

24 February 2009

It was on this day that AR Rahman created history by winning not one but two oscars for his wonderful music composition for the movie "Slumdog Millionaire". Actually he should have got this award long back than this but then there is always a right time for everything. I think he was destined to win this award on this day(24th feb) only.

24 February 2010

This day was indeed a very eventful day for every cricket fan in the world. It would be more apt to say that this day was the most happiest day for every Sachin Tendulkar fan. Because it was on this day that Sachin Tendulkar created history by scoring the only double hundred in ODI history.During this match i was in Mysore and i was not among the lucky ones to see him score this double hundred as i was busy in office. Really but this is a day i will cherish my entire life.

24 February 2011

Well i am mentioning all these above events because every year on the 24th of Feb comes my birthday and as you can see for the past two years something special has been happening on the day of my birthday.Well you can call this co-incidence but then i really feel lucky that all the above mentioned events have taken place on the day of my birthday.

But this year on the day of my birthday(24 Feb 2011) nothing special happened but yes my parents had come all the way from Mumbai to meet me. And what could be more special than being with your mother on the day of your birthday.So really enjoyed my birthday a lot and really expecting something special to happen atleast the next year(Transfer to Mumbai would make it special).

I thank my roomates(Sudhanshu,Koti and Aditya) first because they were the first ones to wish me on my birthday. Secondly i thank Pinky and Amrita for wishing me. And then i need to thank Anushree,Agam and Shilpi for wishing me. Then i thank Noureen also for wishing me and writing something so sweet about me. Also i need to thank some of my office mates who wished me(Sripada,Somnath,Satish,Nupura,Avinash and Anand).And then ofcourse all my friends who have posted their wishes on facebook.

Just one small regret.....just one person didn't wish me....i thought she will surely wish me.....but i think she didn't remember it....i think i expected too much from her because its hardly been 2 months that i know her.....but then still yaar.....i remember that her birthday is on April 8.....but anyways apart from that all you friends and my MOM who came all the way from Mumbai made my birthday a wonderful day.